Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Dexterity of a 20-month-old



Kai was leafing through my magazine and saw a picture of this little boy writing in a book, and next thing I know, he used the crayon he was holding and colored on the picture of the boy holding the pen.
The lines were also neatly confined within the circle.
Now that's what I call Analytical thinking!


This week's theme in school is My school/ My friend. So I sat down with Adam and guided him to cut and paste "himself" and his "friend".
The following Maped child-safe scissors can be bought from Popular at $1.65.

Websites for your IT-savvy tyke




Here are some websites which you and your child might find useful in his learning:

http://www.starfall.com/
This website teaches children how to read. Has online reading games and prinatable activity pages for children to practice.


http://www.historyforkids.org/
An online encyclopedia for kids, Kidipede is an excellent source of information and great for children who have outgrown see-saws and slides. Information on this website is split into 2 categories: History and Science. Intended for slightly older children but is a good base of information for parental reading too.


http://www.kids.nationalgeographic.com/
What is a zombie snail? How do bears hunt? This website allows your child to learn about animals and watch animal videos just a click away. It is filled with many answers to the many "whys" that your child asks.


www.first-school.ws/
This website is a treasure chest of educational early childhood activities for kids aged 2 to 6.
The neat organisation of "The Alphabet", "Colours", and "Shapes" makes it very user-friendly.
Includes free lesson plans which you can use at home or if you're thinking of throwing a play-date with other Mommies, along with the list of materials needed and step-by-step instructions to craft ideas, printable activities, worksheets and coloring pages.


www.bbc.co.uk/schools/ks2bitesize
Here's a fun way to introduce primary school subjects to your tyke. There are 3 categories - English, Math and Science - each of which houses a broad range of activities accompanied with graphics and animation.
This website is good for preschool teachers, or if you're like me, a very hands-on Mom who reinforces learning at home. It presents tons of flashcards for printing, categorised under occupations, food, animals, body parts and more. A great resource for parents indeed.


Abstracted from Young Parents magazine to keep an online bookmark in case I lose the mag, as well as to share with like-minded Mommies.

Monday, January 17, 2011

SCHOOL: Weekly Report

Today, Teacher Joyce gave me a written report of Adam's progress in class last week.
The theme was "Myself" so he made a hand mirror, pasted hair/eyes/nose/mouth on a round vanguard "face" and learnt about things pertaining to the theme. He was able to follow actions made by teachers, and learned sharing of toys and equipment with other classmates.

I am honestly very impressed with the way the school's curriculum is run, if you ask me.
To be frank, I didn't have much expectations from them at first, being PCF-run and all, also because their fees are very cheap affordable!
But everytime I go to fetch Adam, the teacher will give me a low-down of what he ate/did that day and his general well-being.
This enables me to reinforce his learning at home.
They also keep all his art & craft and will give it to me at end of the term.

A little more about Sparkle Tots: The principal of the centre has a Degree in ECT, the staff are qualified with either CPT or DPT (cert/dip in Preschool teaching).
Also, at Kai's centre, the staff have been working there for years. The low staff turnover is important because children get attached to a caregiver and you wouldn't want your child to be in a school with high staff absenteeism and resignations.
So parents, if you are considering PAP/PCF childcare centres, you won't be making the wrong choice.

As a matter of fact, my good husband was the one who researched about Sparkle Tots and told me about it. I was initially looking at all other privately-run centres around our home and when we visited those bungalow ccc, the "teachers" spoke in broken English and most were foreigners from China or Philippines. No doubt these centres always do up fancy websites stating their mission, how they know every child is special, aim to develop an all-rounded person and all the fluff, but would you buy those stories and entrust your child to them?
I know I wouldn't.



The only downside about PCF is that the one near us is run as a ccc, so if you want purely nursery or kindy classes few hours per day (Kai is starting school proper next year in a church kindy), then some PCFs wont work for you because the kids there mostly go for Full day classes and their lessons continue after nap-time so if you kid goes for only half-day, he will be missing out the later parts of the lessons.
And me, not being a fan of too much classroom teaching, believe that children learn the most and best from home. Also influenced by my Psychologist brother, I do not want my child(ren) to be "institutionalised".
I let Kai attend classes, but I reinforce his learning at home according to what Teacher Joyce has taught by repetition, flash cards, asking him questions to test his awareness etc.

Anyway, back to the topic. Next week's theme is My School/ My friend :)

I leave you with some tips on preparing your preschooler for preschool:
- Bring your child to the class as often as you can before start of the school term. Let him/her mingle with the existing children and get used to the environment

- Talk to him often about his new school, teachers, friends. Get him mentally prepared, even if you think he doesn't understand.

- Take leave for the first few days to one week of school (if you are working). Accompany him at first, help him to settle in, then gradually over the week decrease your help and existance by leaving class earlier than you did the previous day. Gradually fade your existance from being with him/her, to just sitting in a corner of the room.

- When dropping him/her off at the gate, always say Good-bye and tell him/her what time you are coming to fetch him/her. This gives your child some closure and something to look forward to at the end of the school-day. It's better than sneaking away for fear of crying because it is worse if your child looks around and suddenly, you've disappeared and wonders where you have vanished to. It makes them feel abandoned and fearful of leaving your sight.

- That said, kids will be kids. Children cry - that's the universal law. It's OK to let your child cry initially when he/she is still not used to the new environment. As long as his/her behaviour has not changed drastically to be withdrawn, quieter than usual, not interested in learning, or throwing tantrums for attention, anything apart from the norm, then crying is quite normal.

Sunday, January 16, 2011

Tea break






Went shopping at Paragon today, my boys needed new clothes for CNY, and I needed to stock up on groceries.
Kai absolutely loves the Marks & Spencer blackcurrent jam and belgian waffles, he ate them all up, leaving hungry Mavy to pick up the crumbs.
Washed everything down with his Milo. Burp~!

Saturday, January 15, 2011

To the zoo zoo zoo!

It's been raining cats & dogs all week, but luckily for us, we were blessed with terrific weather today.
You see, we had a playdate: baby Adam and his baby friend Morgan are going to the zoo zoo zoo!

Adam is all excited and singing in the car :D


Check out his fly-away hair accompanied by his look of exhilaration!


The Twiss and Tan family




























The giraffe kissed my baby!


Morgan and Adam, aged 18mths and 19 mths respectively.









It is Adam's and Morgan's first time to the zoo, and as expected, we spent lots of time at the Rainforest Kids World, watching the dog show, and running around.
What great fun we had today, and we're planning a trip to Universal Studios and Underwater World with the kids next :)

Friday, January 14, 2011

my Little Picasso








my little Picasso is at my Mum's, terrorising his Kao-fu into painting with him :P
He does the painting, my brother does the cleaning up HEHEHE

Oh yes, he is left-handed.

Thursday, January 13, 2011

Border Collies do it till the cows come home



This rug can be bought at $25.90 from IKEA if you are a member, otherwise it is $39.90. Either way, it is still way cheaper than the original $69. Good buy if you ask me!

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Bibbit

First, Kai needs to draw a "Bibbit".


But he got carried away with coloring and had to start over :P

add on some adhesive...


Pasting on the "fur"


My pro artist :D


Adam's rabbit (otherwise known as "Bibbit" to him)



Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Kai attends a Church wedding


this photo was taken when it was still 2010. Can someone pls stop the time!
My happy bubs is holding a bouquet of balloons. Thanks to Suping for letting Kai have her wedding props :P
We drove home with the balloons stuck out my Baby Mobile's sunroof ;D

Coincidentally, this is also the day my Chanel pearls snapped. Luckily, I brought them to the NAC boutqiue and they repaired it for me FOC, no questions asked.

Wish Suping & her Hubby wedded bliss :)
Andy, Veron, Adam.

Off to schooooo


2nd week update: My happy bubs lugging his own school bag to school early morning.
When I dropped him off at the gate, he was apprehensive. Then when I wanted to leave, he started clinging to me by pulling my t-shirt, holding my hand and making sure I was in sight.
Teacher Joyce had to carry him and distract him while I sneaked away.

Immediately after I felt like crying. I think I'm such an emotional softee. I seem to be the one suffering from seperation anxiety instead!

Yesterday, he learnt about body parts, outlined his hand on a vanguard and made a puppet with the cutout. He ate all his cornflakes for breakfast and I am so happy.
Can't believe my dear baby is all grown up now.
Tissues for the poor Mommy please!

Monday, January 10, 2011

Our new home update.




Our new pad is ready anytime now, just awaiting key collection. I'm sooooo excited!
The aircons/ wardrobes/ cabinets are all up the last time we went to see with some future neighbours.

The balcony is gonna be my favourite hangout place in the house.
I want some Balinese outdoor furniture, rattan ball light, bird-nest ferns, safari plants, and water feature with koi fishies plsss!

We went choosing wallpaper with Kai the other weekend, finally had some headstart in the deco.
We're gonna paint a rainbow in his bedroom!

Friday, January 7, 2011

My Darling's First Day at School

Today our darling son is finally well enough to go to school!

Woke up early morning, his hair still standing up and he's eating his muffin for breakfast.



"Mommy we're going to be late can you stop asking me to pose??....."



Off to school! Hand-in-hand with Daddy :)


Adam's personalised Tux name tag :D





Today's theme was Birthday Party, so they sang a Birthday Song, learnt what is a cake, candles, and party, and he colored a Birthday cake. With his name written on it. I feel so proud!



Thankfully, the class is bilingual and the teacher : student ratio is 2:5.
I must say at this moment, Andy & I are very happy about the curriculum and the conduct of the school/teachers. Learning Mandarin is a bonus because as we all know, it's a difficult language and the earlier we start, the better.
According to Psychologist Jean Piaget, the cognitive development of children at the pre-schooler age (2-7yrs) are mostly focused on language development, role-modeling, play-pretend.
Therefore, parents with kids this age group should not be overly anxious if their Playschools don't seem to be "teaching them enough through books and hardcore classroom learning".


In due time, Adam will be going to either St James Kindy or Marymount Kindy.
But right now, this will be our plan - to put Adam in a drop-off program with our shortlisting criteria as follows:
- Must be near our home (for safety reasons, no need to cross any major roads, and easy for Andy's mum to drop-off & pick-up)
- MCYS approved centre with qualified & committed teaching staff (This centre has staff working for years, ie. low turnover rate, which is important because children get attached to caregivers easily and build trust and learn from role-modeling at this age.)
- Cleanliness and hygiene standards
- Not too much rigid sit-down classroom setting
We're currently sticking to this plan until our new home is settled, and until we have our logistics arrangements sorted out.

And nope, there were no tears from my big boy. Not sure about next week though!