The discipline issue - Part 2.

Okay, so I was cross with Adam tonight because he has been behaving like a total crap-bag.
I asked him to his room and closed the door and had a heart-to-heart talk with him (it's never easy to say "I need to talk to you" be it to your husband, colleague or even son!).

I asked him if he is leading a hard life, does he not have food to eat or toys to play with, do Daddy and Mummy always beat him and treat him badly.... blah blah blah. (Now, it seems like all the talking is one-sided).
He started wailing and said No, he has a good life, and that he has food to eat and many toys in his Play-room, and by then his sobs were really loud. I resisted the urge to burst out laughing.
My Adam can be the sweetest thing sometimes.
He behaved really well at dinner and he told me he was tired and needed to rest.
I think he must be exhausted from the day's swim lesson followed by water play, and the fact that he only napped half an hour because he wet his bed big time and woke up from it.
When he has not enough rest, he is capable of being very irritable (and irritating).
So I forgave him and I am not cross with him anymore. I cannot go to bed angry. It's bad for health.

Our evening ended quite amicably. Hubby came back from fishing with his catches and we had fresh steamed fishes for dinner at the nearby zhi-char, Hong Kong style.
I decided not to join Andy fishing in the end because Sundays are filled with lots of Mummy-admin - fetching the kids to Adam's swim lesson, getting lunch and naps in order etc.

Some photos from our evening: Fatty jumping in his jumperoo - the baby-version of a trapeze.

Adam after our "talk".

the big baby who just came back from his fishing trip earlier on.

The discipline issue.

Yesterday, my mummy-friend sent me a link of "high need children" and told me her son seems to fall under all the categories that qualify him as a "high need child".
I looked through the article and suddenly find that Adam is a lot like that recently.
He is demanding and attention-seeking, cannot self-soothe and always needs me to be around to do things for him.

Adam used to adore his younger brother so much, but lately he has been testing our patience.
He snatches whatever toy Ashton is playing with , and recently my father-in-law bought Ashton a walker which we let Adam help choose, but once we had it set up at my in-law's, Adam started claiming the walker as his and refused to let Ashton have a go at it.

He has become demanding, needy and attention-seeking. It makes me extremely fed up because I do not want to resort to something negative which may make him hate me, or worse, hate Ashton.

On a scale of 0-10, 0 being most lenient and 10 being the strictest, I am probably a 2 or 3.
Andy accused me of spoiling him from young, saying that Adam only misbehaves when I'm around because he knows he can get away with it. I think that is not true of course, and I'm very displeased with Andy accusing me like that.

It's not that I spoil Adam too much, but it's just that being a mother, it's contradictory for me to inflict pain on the very ones I'm committed to protect and love.

It's not that I'm not bothered with the boys fighting for toys or attention, it's just that sometimes I think as a parent it is important not to be too quick to jump in and take sides , no matter how tempting it is.
Anyway, these are my sulky, annoying farts...

His train fell off the track and therefore it's the end of the world. 

Upset because he has no toys to play with as Adam has snatched everything away. Sigh.

All that moaning, groaning and whining make my head want to explode.

I know Adam is jealous of having to share all the attention and toys with Ashton, but I'm extremely annoyed with his behaviour.
We (Andy, my in-laws and I) do not practice corporal punishment. Friends who visit find it hard to believe that we do not have a single cane in our home!
We try to give our children the best we can afford (not just the material things), and there is absolutely no reason for Adam to behave like such an ungrateful and annoying shit.

How in the world our grandparents have 10 kids is truly beyond me.

Gyukaku dinner with my gal-pals

Had a most wonderful dinner with the gals I adore. Known one another since we were 13, and now we are all 30 and have / gonna have kids of our own. Still remember last time we used to don Ferragamo belts, carry MCM or JPG bags..and we joined Girl Guides as our ECA so we had the weekly marching and reciting of Girl Guides pledge. HAHAHAHAH laugh die.
Time has definitely flown by.



Japanese Charcoal BBQ with Wagyu beef at Gyukaku, United Square.

Siew Wei and Jarred, who is the same age as Adam, born just a month apart!

Let our men do the cooking while we ladies chattered away (accompanied with loud guffaws).

Scrumptious wagyu~

 

My lovely gals... Huiwen (pictured 2nd from top left) is now 5 months pregnant with her No.2.. (another) boy!
And Angeline (2nd from right) is currently 4 months pregnant with their 1st baby! A girl!! First girl in our group. So excited for them until my heart gonna explode... Haha!

I keep scaring Angeline with stories of balding, the woes of painful boobs, how their lives are gonna be changed FOREVER. So terrible. Hehe!
Now she can join in our (boring) topics of strollers, milk bottles and breast pumps!
As an aside, Huiwen's hubby looks like Sean Yue lor. Why so handsome!! (see picture below):

 and their son Liam looks like Daddy, so he's gonna be a heartbreaker!

 

So good to meet up with my gal pals. We hardly have the time to meet, and our schedules do not always coincide, but when we do eventually gather, we have so much fun and laughter talking nonsense... about life, about our babies, about our past, about anything and everything.

 

So love these gals and cannot wait to meet our new additions at their baby showers!

 



[review] Ginvera Hair Gro Essence for postnatal hairloss

 ** Warning: The following pictures can be disturbing. You are therefore cautioned to proceed at your own risk!

 

Mummies, about the time when your baby is 4 months old, do you experience severe postnatal hair loss like me?

If yes, then this post might be helpful to you.

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During CNY period, I posted these photos of my hair dropping out in clumps.

This is the result of all that hair loss. Horror of horrors! 

 

Balding patches on my crown and sides as a result of 2 months of continuous hair fall. Gasp!

Thankfully, I found an excellent and cheap product which saved my hair during my first pregnancy, and good Lordy, I managed to find this wonderful hair tonic again after 3 years!

Presenting. . .

Ginvera Hair Gro Essence: an affordable and effective hair tonic for minimising severe hair loss, and promotes fast re-growth.

Comes in a black glass packaging, rather unassuming, and not widely available, therefore it took me great pains to find it again. And I'm glad I did.

After just 1 month of nightly use after shampooing, I see baby hair growing. Yayness!
Tip: I squirt the tonic directly onto my scalp and massage immediately after toweling dry my hair.

The regrowth is about 1 inch to 1.5 inches long after just 1 month of using. I have not even finished the bottle of tonic yet!

Can you see baby hair along my hairline and notice my bald patches are significantly reduced at the parting area??

Did you know?  

I like that Ginvera Hair Gro Essence is made of 27 natural herbs and 6 mineral extracts such as bee pollen, ginseng, and aloe vera.

 It is formulated with bio energy and micro molecules to allow full penetraion of the essence to the hair shaft and the root, thereby encouraging blood and oxygen circulation to the scalp.

 It has a strong herbal smell but that smell does not linger.

I usually wash and dry my hair, apply the tonic, and leave it on till the next morning and by then there is no more strong herbal smell.

When use as directed, Ginvera 168 Hair Growth Essence promises to help control hair loss in just 7 days and promote hair growth in 30 to 90 days.

For me, I see the results in just 1 month.

 

 Best of all, no need to break your bank going for expensive hair treatments. Thumbs up!

So Mummies, if you are facing postnatal hair loss and are at your wits' end, this might just be the product to save your crowning glory :)

 

 

[sponsored review] KOSÉ INFINITY

About 2 weeks back, I received a set of KOSÉ's newest products - full-sized INFINITY range of whitening lotion and serum for blog review purpose.

Thank you KOSÉ Singapore for your generosity because I have started bringing Adam for his weekly swimming lessons and also, from our recent family cruise, as well as an upcoming fishing trip, I have been exposed to the harmful rays of the sun!

The inevitable sacrifices of parenthood isn't it??

 

I have been using KOSÉ INFINITY products religiously every day and night for almost 2 weeks now, and would like to share with you information about this popular Asian brand's new range.

 

Applying INFINITY Realizing White Lotion as a first step after washing my face. The lotion has the liquid consistency and translucency of toner, and is rapidly absorbed into the skin simply by patting onto clean face.
I always do it when my face is still slightly damp after washing as my pores are still open. 

2nd: Just a tiny amount of INFINITY Realizing White Serum is enough for the entire face. Likewise, I apply this serum vaguely onto my entire face and then pat my whole face till everything is absorbed into the skin. Even though the consistency is thicker than the Lotion, it still gets abosrbed very quickly. My face is not sticky or oily after applying this! 

 

I even packed these babies in my luggage for my cruise trip! Used a clean Ferragamo shoe bag for them hehe. Diligently using this product :) 

Using patting motions for application instead of rubbing (adopted from Hada Labo's method). I have senstivie skin to begin with that's why I always swear by Organic products because I break out easily but after using KOSÉ INFINITY for 2 weeks, my skin is brighter, more radiant and most importantly, no breakouts!

Can you see the overall skintone of my face is slightly pinkish compared to my hands which are yellowish??

I love, love this product!

 

Kojic acid is one of the main ingredients compounded in INFINITY Realizing White XX range. It has a small molecular size and discovered over 100 years ago. In 1988, Kojic acid was the second active whitening ingredient after Vitamin C, approved by Japan's Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare.

 

That's not all. As an introductory offer, KOSÉ is giving 10% off their INFINITY range (from now till 30 April 2013).

 

 

Have you Liked KOSÉ Singapore's Facebook page yet? Register for your very own Infiinity Deep Protection UV Sample now with SPF 50+ and PA++++. Also, participate in their lucky draw and stand a chance to win their hamper.
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 Thanks for reading my skin whitening experience and hope you found this review useful :)

Royal Caribbean cruise [Part 2]: Penang and Port Klang

 Day 2: the ship docked at Penang as the first stop so we chartered a mini bus to bring us around.

Time was scarce so it was basically touch-and-go for the experience.

 

 

Poor Adam was so tired from all our activities that he fell asleep like this while we had Chendol

Enjoying some icy treats before setting off.
I'm wearing a salmon pink batwing blouse with embroidery from www.tracyeinny.com.sg . Denim shorts from Bugis Street.
Bag: Hermes Etoupe evelyne GM III, my trusty "rugged" bag.
Slippers: Tory Burch. Very comfy and something I can wear to death.

Penang Peranakan museum

After Peranakan museum tour, we went to Penang Gurney food street for dinner before heading back to the ship.

Penang laksa: sedup!

Adam and I going crazy in front of my in-laws. Yes, my children can do anything with me as long as it doesn't involve drugs and a real gun. I'm a crazy Mummy like that!

At least all the jumping made a certain baby laugh



Day 3: Port Klang.

At Port Klang

Eat first, shop later. One huge claypot of Bak Kut Teh. Love the flavorful herbal soup.


Oops only these 2 photos from Port Klang because there's nothing much going on there.

Sleepyheads.
I didn't mean to eavesdrop on Adam while he was playing on his own before bedtime but the cabin is only that small and I heard him saying to his imaginary friends, "Oh no, Adam's mummy is here! Quick!" [insert shuffling sound effects which I assume are imaginary friends scampering off].

 It's official - I'm a scary Mumzilla!